Depending on what type of case is involved, at the first meeting the Issues to Discuss will be agreed upon, such as the temporary housing arrangement, payment of bills, spousal or other support. If minor children are involved, the parents will agree on a possession schedule for the child and the terms of their Parenting Plan.
If the case involves a divorce, the parties, with the Mediator’s assistance, will identify all their assets and liabilities, agree on values, determine the extent of liabilities, and, finally, agree on a Property Division.
As agreements are reached during each session, I will prepare a Memorandum of Agreements so that each party will be clear about what agreements were made. Also, during each session, it is likely that assignments will be made, such as obtaining appraisals, listing of assets and liabilities, a proposed possession schedule, etc.
Once a final agreement has been reached on all issues, depending on what type of case is involved, there are many options regarding the final paperwork and ending of the controversy. These options will be presented to the parties, discussed and agreed upon, then implemented. For example, if the dispute involves a divorce with children, there are several options to consider: